One of the reasons I avoided NOW in Michigan for so many years was that they seemed to be solely directed at Radical Lesbians -- that straight women in happy relationships with supportive males were not really feminists. That's the image I have in my head of "feminazis" -- not the families and multigenerational/multigender groups I saw at the march.
So, my question is: what do _you_ see as a feminist? Is the word itself a roadblock? How better to describe outselves?